Posted by OzLand on August 4, 2007, at 23:38:30
In reply to why...., posted by sunnydays on August 4, 2007, at 20:32:17
Oh gosh; of course it feels worse. I am so sorry. With everyone including you packing up to leave, and most everyone gone, no wonder you feel worse. It is a double whammy, and most certainly would feel like abanonment. You are being abandoned but not in the way you think as you know you will see him again. I am not completely understanding, but will you be moving back again and others too. And if so, as for how long will you be gone? Do you come back when your therapist comes back? I ask because you mention packing.
I recall when I lived in the dorm, and everyone had already left or most everyone. I felt so sad. It did mean the end of the year. And, the new year was going to be different. Some people would be back and some not. It can be good, though.
I am going to my h.s. class reunion in September. Each five years I go, I learn of someone else who has died. That part I don't like. One of my best friends in high school was someone who I was going to take flying lessons with, and at the last minute I didn't do it. She did. I saw her at the five year reunion, and when I went to the tenth, I learned she had died in a plane crash when she was flying over the Rockie Mountains. So, who is around that you know, and when do you leave? Packing too, yah that would add to the sadness and anxiety. Just keep checking in, and we will here, Okay?
OzLand
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