Posted by Dinah on June 19, 2007, at 17:09:08
In reply to Would you say something?, posted by jammerlich on June 19, 2007, at 14:10:49
Of course I'd mention it. :)
Really, it's the only way to sort things like that out. It doesn't have to be confrontational. More like, the other day you said this, but now you're saying the other, and I don't quite understand how they mesh.
Sometimes I find out that he didn't mean something the way I heard it. And sometimes I find out he hasn't really thought it out very well and is spouting different techniques at different times.
So one way I clear up a misunderstanding, and the other way he gets to really think about what he's saying. So it works out. And since he considers that a particular gift of mine, I don't guess he minds.
poster:Dinah
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