Posted by muffled on June 15, 2007, at 9:31:06
In reply to Seeing my T outside therapy, posted by Barna on June 15, 2007, at 8:21:12
I think you should be very open and discuss this with her.
What are your motives in desiring friendship?
Will you be OK with much less avaialability. You won't see her as often.
You will likely worry whether you being friends or whether she being a free T or something.
Yhe focus should not be all on you in friendship and that will be diff.
I think there's lotsa stuff, can't think all now. But definately talk bout it to T.
I'm in the same situ, I am very confused. My T is just way to like me in interests and stuff. But the transition will be hard, dunno if I want her for a friend enuf to go thru the troubles.....
My latest thot, is that she could be a hiking buddy, and could come on hikes w/me and friends.
Then we can talk Godstuff, cuz I like that, and T got good bible knowledge.
Best wishes,
Muffled
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