Posted by 10derHeart on May 29, 2007, at 12:33:24
In reply to OK so I KNOW I'm weird...but..., posted by muffled on May 29, 2007, at 9:29:46
I think I'd have to ask, but that's just me. My T. expects that from me, as I am impulsive, direct and challenging (and scared the whole time being that way!) :-) We had a whole 'thing' about me saying I liked the color of his shirt one day....And it all went just fine - we always learn stuff about each other's perceptions, assumptions that way.
If it's a boundary for her, she'll choose how or how much to answer. Doesn'tr mean you can't ask a simple question. Something as obvious and 'in your face' as a totally new haircut is bound to be noticed by a client, she's sure to know that...
I doubt she'll have any problems about just asking. You could say something like, "Your short haircut really surprised me. I keep wondering about it." That way (from what you've written here) I'll bet she won't be able to resist asking you WHAT you're wondering.
And you are not the least bit weird.
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