Posted by annierose on May 3, 2007, at 22:41:22
In reply to Extreme Honesty -- really long, posted by Daisym on May 3, 2007, at 20:47:07
You know the answers intellectually, your heart doesn't trust them yet. I think of my T calling me "leery" of her truth.
No, your t isn't freaking out about your session. He is more worried about you and how you are coping, what you are feeling, are you safe. This is what your t is thinking about this weekend. Can Daisy hold on to me and trust me?
Will he miss you? YES!
Will I miss you? Yes!
Will your kids miss you? EVERY SINGLE MOMENT!!You asked him a hard question. He needed time to process it and give you a honest answer. He isn't one to spout off cliche comments. He is thoughtful and kind, just like you.
Even though I don't have the sexual fantasies a part of my therapy, I do suffer those intense feelings. My t comforts me with the same thought, "I'm honored to be a part of your life." It is hard to believe that, isn't it? Why is it easier for us to believe that we just are a date and time, an appointment to fill up their schedule? But there is another conflicting part of our brain that knows the truth, scared to accept it.
The next three days will be hard. I hope you check in with him. You have come such a long way. And it is so darn hard!
I am proud of you. You continue to shine the light in dark places with your soul searching.
Love, Annie
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