Posted by muffled on April 10, 2007, at 23:02:35
In reply to T today, posted by jammerlich on April 10, 2007, at 14:27:38
(((Jammer))). Hope you OK.
I dunno if I comming across wrong, but I see some of your fear and stuff and staying away from T in myself. Then I got the probs w/fear of allowing attachment. And I so didn't want to get the boundaries wrong. And I was forever getting dumpmeitis. Anyhow, basically it was very hard and sucked big time. I didn't like the feelings I was having.
But T stuck w/me, and I stuck w/her, and now its alot better. I don't get dumpmeitis any more. I pretty much trust she wouldn't hurt me on purpose. Its felt mostly ok to let someone closer to me. And she knows some stuff bout me and hasn't run away or been horrified by me. And that feels good too. I never had this b4. Its OK and good. Scarey but good. So I just wish the same for you is all.
Take care Jammer.
Muffled
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