Posted by gazo on April 4, 2007, at 12:13:12
In reply to Re: child abuse triggers » Happyflower, posted by Orchid on April 4, 2007, at 11:44:35
Hi Orchid. Please forgive me if i am intruding, and HF please forgive me if i am not getting this right or putting words in your mouth. You know i love ya babe.
i think the problem is the suggestion of what to do instead of the simple acknowledgement of how she is feeling. Sometimes we just need to feel some empathy and understanding instead of a "do." Sometimes we just need to feel heard. Does this make sense?
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