Posted by Fallsfall on April 4, 2007, at 10:05:52
In reply to Decided on flowers, posted by Dinah on April 3, 2007, at 12:25:35
"But *you* are *my* family."
Boy does that strike a chord with me.
Congrats on 12 years. Congrats on choosing a gift. Congrats on getting a hug!!! (Lean the side of your face on his shoulder is my recommendation.)
You really have come a long way in 12 years, Dinah. For someone who says that she gives up all the time, you certainly have fought for this relationship. And it has been a good thing.
I hope you feel some satisfied contentment.
Love,
FallsP.S. I have a game called "Ungame" (I got it for 1.95 at the Goodwill store) - copyright 1984. The Ungame Company, P.O. Box 6382, Anaheim, CA 92806. Created by Rhea Zakich.
It has two sets of cards - easy and hard.
Easy cards are:
Complete this statement: Love is _____
If you received $5000 as a gift - how would you spend it?
Tell about a time when you felt proud of yourself
What is your favorite song?Hard cards are:
What is your definition of security?
What would you like to be remembered for after you die?
Describe a happy familyThere is a board with sections like:
Friendly Farm
Worry Wharf
Complaint Campground
Happy HouseIt might spark some conversation.
But I recommend free association (saying whatever you think). It is hard, but quite valuable.
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