Posted by Dinah on April 2, 2007, at 11:44:53
In reply to Re: It's not that I'm ready to terminate » Dinah, posted by Honore on April 2, 2007, at 11:00:47
:)
I'm not mad at him anymore. I'm not sure why I was. Checking his cell when it rings and telling me things at the very end of session are longtime irritants to me. I forgot to ask at the beginning of session if he had anything to tell me, so that was partly my fault. And he swears that he wasn't checking the cell number, or sending a text message, but was just fumbling with his new phone to try to turn off the "someone called" alert so that it wouldn't be a distraction. That new phone is going to drive me nuts. And can't he put it on flash ring and stick it in his coat pocket or something?
Anyway, I'm not really angry anymore, and I'm off to try to find a dozen something or anothers that won't go bad before tomorrow morning. I would find it hard to stop tomorrow morning, because I have to drop a dog off at the vets on the way, although if I come up empty today I guess I'll have to figure out something tomorrow.
Unfortunately, I still am having the slightly sick feeling I've had all weekend, and made the mistake of eating. So I'm not exactly shopping with joy or anything. :(
I'm glad you understand, Honore. It's a hard thing for even me to understand sometimes.
(I've been thinking of suggesting a therapy game. I know they have them for kids, and they probably do for adults as well. It's a shame that we really don't have enough in common to enliven a relationship when there's no crisis, but this is where the fact that we'd really never have become friends or anything in the real world becomes a slight nuisance. And either he doesn't feel the boredom, or he's used to it, because he's not helping me *at all* despite my requests.)
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