Posted by one woman cine on March 27, 2007, at 12:05:38
In reply to Re: To Cine » one woman cine, posted by Jeff Smith on March 27, 2007, at 11:22:23
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> Hi Cine,
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> -Well, no its not already a done deal.No, really? Is this another fact? Because I have information that states otherwise. But either way, this thing will just turn into a bigger "who said what". Involving other people just exponentially increases the equation.
>>>>> -I realize it was private "communication" between two people. But Im offering to share it privately, not publicly. Im sorry if you would prefer that I didnt share them with anyone, but I simply cant understand why you'd feel that way. Could you please explain why so I could understand? Just out of curiosity.Because if it were OK, everyone could post babbelmails on public boards, but that's prohibited. It's not OK to share private communications. & you are only telling your side, your version.
>>>> -I too am not going to get into "who said what": I know exactly who said exactly what and can prove it very easily. Just being factual is all.They are your perceptions, not facts.
>>>>> -Are you accusing me of "trying to rally people to my point of view"? If so I find that offensive.
I said "I", no where did I say "you". I was speaking about myself. I have no need to have an open invitation to discuss a private matter, between 2 people who have very different ideas about what happened.
You stated you know the "truth" - have I accused you of calling me a liar? No. I have stated & will continue to state - that is your version of events. Fine. It is in no way my version of events and saying your truth is THE truth feels unfair to me.
>>>> Im not trying to rally people to my point of view: Im simply offering to share the truthful facts with people and then they can decide for themselves how they feel about it. I dont see anything wrong or immoral about telling the truth and not hiding things and Im sure you'd agree with that. Or no?Telling your truth is fine, but your truth is not my truth. & btw, - if it's OK to post private things, why not just post who you are IRL, where you live, etc etc. Why not, Jeff?
Why didn't you include your personal info in the original post? If it's OK to do, then why not post it now?
You posted other peoples personal info, including names etc. I wonder how they felt about that.
Everyone has different comfort levels. I am asking you to respect mine. If you don't, you don't. I bear all this in mind when posting in the future.
I would also ask you to please stop posting the smiley faces when writing to me. It's a confusing mixed message. Thanks.
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