Posted by Jeff Smith on March 21, 2007, at 19:30:29
In reply to Re: Your Opinion: Am I Right Or Just Crazy/Irrit » one woman cine, posted by Jeff Smith on March 20, 2007, at 14:17:37
> > >>>>>Im sure we all heard that cliche (dont know if its true or not) that shrinks are all f*cked up themselves... but lets assume its true and theyre all evil just for now.
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> > Um, then why seek help at all if they are *all* just stupid, evil and money hungry as you say they are?
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> Why seek help at all? Because I need it and these are the people you go to for it. Same reason anyone else would seek help.
> I never said they were *all* "just stupid" (or if I did then please just quote where I said that?).
> When I said the word evil (which you just took out of context) I said it like this: "And that sucks that you were rejected for that reason. Im sure we all heard that cliche (dont know if its true or not) that shrinks are all f*cked up themselves... but lets assume its true and theyre all evil just for now. : )"
> If you could tell, that was said in jest. Note the smiley face and words "just for now". : )
> I dont at all believe all shrinks are evil or that they have any higher percentage of "evil" people than non shrinks do.
> Money hungry? It would be unfair to say they ALL money hungry as I dont know statistics or all of them personally... but yes I believe they more money hungry than humanitarian. What percentage I dont know and have no way of finding out.
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> So:
> Why did you not reply to my last post to you or answer any of the questions in it, and instead come up with this question apparently in response to that quote from me to gazo?
> Are you for some reason angry or insulted or offended?
> Im confused.Cine is so sweet!! : )
In reply to my very last question to her above ("Are you for some reason angry or insulted or offended?"
) she provided me with two babble mails with nice helpful hints and lovely compliments. Shes even helping me out!! Well not in any ordinary way you might think was helpful but this is something different and more clever. This type of help is more of a lesson for me to learn from Cine. Perhaps you might call it a morality lesson.
You see, as she stated, "[xxx]"and also:
"[xxx]"
You see, Cine finds my posts to be "[xxx]" and my "[xxx]" to be "[xxx]" and finds me to "[xxx]". Along with those things I have also "[xxx]" all of my past therapists and I engage in "[xxx]" and therefore as a result of those things Cine has decided to not refer me to the few psychiatrists she knows in my area.
The lesson Im learning is much more valuable and helpful than any referrals to any psychiatrists would ever be: The lesson is that when you're going through major mental hell/trauma and your extremely depressed and frustrated and angry and hopeless (etc, etc) do NOT come to a psychiatric support board and express your true feelings. This may anger someone.
No sir. And if you are angry and disappointed and frustrated over the fact that youve had nothing but crappy, unqualified and useless therapists then do NOT express yourself and complain about them at a psychiatric message board. Its not the therapists fault they couldnt help you, its yours.
Those things are not good in the eyes of certain people. Those are NOT the type of qualities that any psychiatrist will accept in any patient... they dont wanna hear about your anger at your abusive parents or the guy who molested you. And if you possess those qualities then Cine is gonna withhold her referrals. : ) And thats only because shes trying to be helpful, and not to punish or judge you in any way. This doesnt mean she doesnt like me or thinks Im a bad person and nothing in her babble mails to me would indicate that.So do you get the lesson now? The lesson Ive learned is that if I was a different person and learned how to behave in an non angry way and make posts in certain ways that were acceptable to certain people then Id be worthy of certain referrals. But since Im not that kinda guy then Ill just have to suffer the consequences of not getting those referrals.
And I now know what I need to do to earn and achieve this and end my suffering.Its simple really. What I need to do is try not to have "[xxx]" posts or a "[xxx]" "[xxx]". If I can achieve this buy suppressing my true feelings and write as if Im happy as a clam then I can move on to learning to not "[xxx]" or "[xxx]" any previous or current or future or any therapist in general by suppressing those feelings too and instead posting about fluffy kittens and clowns or other things which arent negative about therapists.
If you too can achieve this then you will have earned a referral. If not then Im personally taking my referrals and my toys and Im not playing with you all as youre not worthy.Well thanks for this lesson Cine. : )
If lessons are allowed to be discussed here then perhaps we can discuss the others you taught me later.
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