Posted by muffled on February 12, 2007, at 22:48:44
In reply to REJECTION (trigger), posted by youngaddict on February 12, 2007, at 17:36:01
> my shrink basically rejected me today by telling me she doesn't think its good to keep seeing her because i can't be emotionally available to her and i am being counter productive in therapy. i mean its a lot more complicated than that but i feel as if i was rejected by the one person who is supposed to be there for me. i mean, i PAY her. WTF?
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Sorry YA :(
Sucks.
I think Caraher and HK both had good things to say.
My T has said to me 'are we progessing', or something like that, in other words she wanted to be sure she was helping and not hindering, or not accomplishing anything. She said it is her responsibility to not work with me if we are not getting anywhere.
Hmmmm, mebbe this IS a T thing they do?? Who knows.
So I guess what I would be inclined to think is that she is trying to be responsible, and mebbe hoping you will rise to the challenge.
Have you been able to stay clean for any length of time again?
I think its hard to do good therapy while using/abusing substances. I was high at T once, not that high, but my T still noticed. So I guess its an issue. Cuz if you high, you are hiding, and thats not what therapy is about.
I hope you can resolve some of this 'stuff'.
:-(
Its so hard I know. Life has lotsa hurts. But we goto motor on and do the best we can.
You would never beleive where I once was in my addiction.....and now I am a Mom and stuff...I have my troubles, but I also got alot of JOY! Though sometimes I forget.
Take care YA,
Sorry you got hurt,
But you just show her up!
Clean up and do some good T !
Giv'er sh*t if need be. Clears the air.
Best of luck to you,
Muffled
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