Posted by zenhussy on February 8, 2007, at 10:00:23
In reply to Re: Selfish, posted by cubic_me on February 8, 2007, at 9:43:49
>>>but I do believe that some people get to such a point that living is intollerable and they shouldn't have to continue living with that pain for the sake of other people.<<<
and on the flip side...
some people get to such a point with grief, anger, and unanswered questions from *surviving the suicide of a loved one* that life is intolerable they shouldn't have to continue living with that pain.......but they do, somehow.
some make it, some don't. it can be a life of agony surviving a loved one's suicide...talking of the pain the deceased was in prior to their chosen death doen't trump out the pain the survivors are left to live the rest of their lives in.
we all hurt. some manage. some don't.
we all end up hurt from some aspect of it. and we're not trying to discuss better, worse, richer poorer etc....just that ppl left after suicide have a hard road to travel and often revisiting the "it is okayish because they freed themself from so much pain" refrain can salt their wounds.
folks on this board are adults for most part and can take care of themselves...suicide is obviously a triggery subject for many.....consider this our contribution on the matter.
poster:zenhussy
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