Posted by Dis Traught on January 28, 2007, at 11:27:03
Hi,
I know I need therapy. It's just that a number of years ago, when I entered therapy , I felt increasingly attracted to my T. As I knew little about therapy, I discussed it w a friend, who was very much into therapy, psychology lit and so on. So I told my friend how tense I was to felt before sessions, and she said: "Great! Tell him! It means that the therapy is working! It's called transference. It's important you bring it out into the open". So, I went to the next session and owned up to feeling very attracted. He then said "Thank God! I thought you'd never say anything! Shall we go out and get some coffee?!"
Within a week we had sex. We were both married. In retrospect, I realise I was in dire need of being validated, because I had been very neglected as a child. Imagine my therapist wanting me, low-esteem, madness and all.
It wasn't worth it. To those of you who would like a relationship with your T, you should know that it makes it hard to trust people afterwards.Penny
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