Posted by Daisym on January 23, 2007, at 12:05:00
In reply to Sudden insane thought, posted by Dinah on January 23, 2007, at 11:48:00
Everything I'm learning tells me that your unconscious will read and "talk to" his unconscious. This might not happen in a concrete way - he might not be really having a child, but he might be longing for one, or having regrets about not having one, or something along those lines. It may even be that he had thoughts of caring for you as if he would his own daughter...but something (you said you know what it is)is sending that signal.
Isn't it interesting how "polite" we still are, even after so much personal disclosure? Sometimes questions pop in my mind about my therapist and I stiffle them immediately. The rules are that this is about me. I find it a huge step to be able to ask him, "what are you thinking?" if he doesn't offer his thoughts. Although, this summer I did lose it with him and yell at him that he doesn't trust me, he never tells me "anything" and yet he expects me to tell him "everything!" He was keeping something from me, I could feel it and I was right.
So...maybe you are right. Then, of course the question -- "what would this mean for me?" is bound to pop in.
*sigh* Shouldn't this process get easier, eventually?
poster:Daisym
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