Posted by Llurpsie_Noodle on January 21, 2007, at 0:59:51
In reply to Re: Friday's Meeting, posted by caraher on January 20, 2007, at 16:11:46
Well,
Good for him. Your T is opening up to people about his hard issues. Not helping you much. You will need to find someone to talk to about YOUR stuff.I guess I can only dream that, maybe... If he finds out that these feelings are typical and common, well he won't take them as seriously, and they won't feel as intense and intimate as they seem right now. That may help him open up even more, etc.
I guess I still don't understand how this helps Elaine, except that you no longer feel like you must provide supportive counselling. There is NOTHING he can tell anyone that will make him a good T for you. He lost that opportunity many many months ago whne he first allowed the boundaries to become indistinct, and he has been reinforcing it with every indiscretion and certainly his odd e-mail and in-session behavior.
seroquel's go me,
take care sweetie,
=Ll
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