Posted by Dinah on January 8, 2007, at 9:34:50
In reply to ***T relationship trigger***Negative thots, posted by muffled on January 8, 2007, at 8:07:05
I'm wondering how much of this is something she actually said, and how much is what you think she's thinking. My therapist actually gets annoyed with me sometimes for thinking I'm such a burden. He tells me I'm not even close to the line of being a burden, that if I need him call him, and that he doesn't need time away from me, he needs time with his family away from it all. He generally gives me carte blanche to call him wherever he is, although he admits that depending on his schedule he may not be able to get back to me promptly.
Have you talked to her about this? What does she say about it?
(Mind you, I still get a bit affronted when he talks about how he's looking forward to a holiday with no work, and remind him that his work is having relationships with people, including me, and that if he's looking forward to getting away from all that, it might be more discreet to not say so in front of his "work".)
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