Posted by orchid on November 21, 2006, at 13:14:41
In reply to dvd card for ex-t -- good or bad idea?, posted by shrinking violet on November 21, 2006, at 9:40:06
Hi SV,
Nice to hear from you. How are you?I think it is a bad idea to try to do something special for your Ex T because of the way she terminated you and cutting off all contact with you. Trying to do something more special would only end up hurting you more, since that would lead to increased expectations and will keep the same cycle going on in your mind (the hope that she will respond and the despair when she doesn't).
IMHO, don't even write to her. Or if you have to absolutely, send something very simple and which will help you move in the direction of getting away from her.
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