Posted by SatinDoll on November 8, 2006, at 13:23:14
In reply to Re: erotic therapy? » SatinDoll, posted by Dinah on November 8, 2006, at 12:43:12
Dinah,
I agree he didn't do any of this on purpose and I don't think he knew how I was taking it because I didn't realize till after it was over.Maybe it had something to do with the fact mentioned our relationship is fake ( I know I said that just because I am mad about the boundries). I think he might of taken it that I think he is fake in relating to me, so now he is trying to be more real? Who knows?
It was just surprising to feel sort of turned on by the bantering and debating afterwards. I am thinking about asking him next session how he felt about our last session. In a way it felt good, it was funny, challenging, and I found out that my T can be as stuborn headed as me. LOL
We have disagreed before but it never got into a long debate. But I LOVE intellegical conversations, always have, and I love to debate controversaial topics, and I just haven't had anyone who was a match for me. ( I know that sound concited) but it is true. Not everyone likes to debate, they tend to get too upset. Now our dabate remained friendly the whole time, even when I said "bite me", he knew me enough that I was kidding because I said it with a huge grin on my face. He once stopped what he was going to say, and I said, go ahead, bring it on! Then he said well okay! It was fun, I got some of my aggression out, even though he gave me some differet aggression. And it took my mind off my depression about my concert, but Dinah, after chating with you, I am so on to him! LOL ;-)
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