Posted by SatinDoll on November 8, 2006, at 9:17:33
In reply to Re: possible neg. of babble on the ther. relationhip » SatinDoll, posted by Fallsfall on November 8, 2006, at 7:46:59
Hi Falls,
I think I need to let go too, and let it happen. I think I also read as much as I could about therapy because I didn't know anything about it and because of trust.
I believe I have learned to trust him and that took a long time, a little trust at a time, and now I trust him completely. But I believe I will always be on guard a little.
Do you think Falls, that your therapy is working better now that you trust him and are using him instead of the books to help you?
I just hope he will still work with me, we were going to start termination at the end of the year with spreading out my apppointment, but now I feel like I probably need to go weekly. It has been almost 2 years and I know he normally doesn't go this long with most of his clients, so I am scared of him leaving me. He once told me that he trusts I will know when time will be right, he said he might push me a little, but the decsion will be mine. He also said I don't have one little clog in single house, he said I have a condo building of many clogs to clear up.
How long did it take you falls before you just let therapy happen? How long have you been with your T? I think I might be ready.
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