Posted by Daisym on October 23, 2006, at 10:37:27
In reply to Re: connection with T? » Daisym, posted by Pfinstegg on October 23, 2006, at 0:07:17
I think one of the more challenging aspects of these feelings is that I feel sort of like sunny said she does - like HE'S changed in some way. I intellectually know this isn't true, he is steady and available. But I want to stomp my feet and insist that he "feel" the same as he did before.
I think you are right. What I am feeling is the ambivalence of a three year old. The world is so exciting and has so many interesting things to do...and yet the safe, nurturing closeness of a loving parent is what I want as well. I imagine it is easier when you really are three, without the cognitive overlay.
But I'm glad to know I'm not alone. (Did I tell you I'm training with Allan Shore in January? :)
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