Posted by Dinah on September 8, 2006, at 18:36:19
In reply to Re: He's still not opposed to a full time job :( » Dinah, posted by Jost on September 8, 2006, at 18:05:08
I do have faith that he'll do his best to see me, or I don't know what I'd do.
It's also not a new threat. I just didn't think it was an ongoing one. I had the idea that right now was a relatively stable time for therapists in New Orleans, on a financial level.
From past experience, I'd say that if he can, he'll try to arrange a half day off one day a week and see me a second time on the weekend. If he can't manage that, I imagine he'll try to see me after work one day a week and on the weekend for a second session.
But he's right. It is different, and not in a good way. He doesn't particularly like working in a nine to five supervised position, and in the past he's been rather tense while doing it. And seeing him after a full day of work he doesn't particularly like isn't the same as seeing him when he's at his best.
But I'll never leave him, of course.
I do have faith that if it's anywhere in his power, he won't stop seeing me. Only if he or someone in his family becomes ill or if he moves out of state. I guess that's something.
It's just not terribly good for me to see him when he's not at his best.
I'm afraid I'll have to hope that things don't work out in any prospective employment. And try not to feel guilty about that. :)
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