Posted by muffled on August 3, 2006, at 23:06:45
In reply to Been away sick....need some advice, posted by fairywings on August 3, 2006, at 14:37:37
Oh FW so sorry :-(
Is your back healing ok?
Your T has very strong boundaries it would seem. Has he helped you at all? I get people mixed up if you've already posted I'm sorry.
Sometimes strong boundaries is a good thing.
One thing is it would help with getting overly attached to our T's and depending on them too much. Cuz we DO pay them for a service. As long as the boundaries are clear from the start it makes things much easier.
Its very hard to bang up against them.
I dunno what you have written to him?
Alls I can say is if he has been helpful to you then thats good. If he has not, then time to look for someone else.
Humans always ultimately fail us at one time or another.
Its the human condition.
Its harder with T's cuz the relationship is so weird and uneven.
I'm sorry you've been hurt.
I'm sorry your in pain.
You are a good person FW.
I guess I'm not too helpful.
I feel for you.
Please take care. I had been wondering.
Thanks for posting.
Muffled
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