Posted by Racer on July 12, 2006, at 2:18:37
In reply to Re: Why it's a bad idea to google your T, posted by Daisym on July 12, 2006, at 1:51:02
You know, though -- I've googled my T, and learned a few things, but she's also brought similar things up.
I found her home address -- which I wasn't looking for, by the way -- but before I could warn her, she talked to me about contacting her in an emergency, and said that her home telephone number and address were easily available. At the same time, I discovered her husband is a doctor. She told us that in group one night.
But honestly, I think it would be good for you to talk about this with her. Talk to her about why you do it, and what it means to you to learn these things about her. Right now, even though it must feel pretty weird to you, you've got this huge area that you're having to make secret and shameful. Isn't that part of what most of us are doing in therapy? Shining lights into those dark places?
Just a thought, and I'm sorry to offer it... I don't mean to be, you know, whatever it is I am tonight...
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