Posted by annierose on June 24, 2006, at 16:18:04
In reply to Re: Wow. I feel like such a spoiled brat. :-( » All Done, posted by fallsfall on June 24, 2006, at 13:04:28
>>>It would be easier if we could understand what the feelings are about - but they aren't logical<<<
The only way I can wrap my head around my intense feelings when my feel goes on vacation, I imagine how my children feel when I go away on a business trip. They cling to me, "please don't go" and they look forward to each phone call in the morning and prior to bedtime. My T will tell me that my apprehension prior to her vacation is completely understandable (which is coming up in 3 days ...). I'm glad it makes perfect sense to her, at least she's not freaked out by my attachment.
She'll explain, "Right now, this relationship is the center of your emotional life. You've come to count on my being here." And I think, but I'll miss you, how could you leave?
Laurie, at least you'll get to see him twice for two weeks in a row - right?
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