Posted by Karolina on June 21, 2006, at 22:31:37
In reply to Is this odd thing for a T to say?, posted by happyflower on June 21, 2006, at 6:15:49
My T has said the same sort of thing… He makes jokes about being so old all the time (he’s in his late 40s) or will comment about his appearance or weight. Once he was telling me about how he had gone through a period of depression and had really lost his appetite, but then things got better and he was like ‘and now I probably eat *too* much’. or when we were talking about diets/exercise one day, he was talking about how he is ‘probably like 20 pounds overweight’…yea right!! this man is HOT. tan, in shape, looks younger than he really is and does stuff like rock climbing and running.
I was thinking maybe that, because of the whole attraction thing going on, our Ts feel insecure around us or something? or maybe they are trying to get our attention to say nice things about them? it’s really strange. Sorry that I don’t know exactly if it's an odd thing for a T to talk about (since mine does the same thing!) but I totally understand what you are talking about!
-Karolina-
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