Posted by LadyBug on June 20, 2006, at 0:27:04
In reply to T is away, posted by sunnydays on June 19, 2006, at 20:37:28
This is one of the issues my T has had with me. She has waited to the last few min. to tell me she was going away. After many many hurt feelings and feeling like being abandonded, she now tries to tell me way in advance. So we can process it together. The last 2 times she left for a 3 day weekend. She made sure she didn't cancel our appointment that we have on Thursdays. I think she finally realizes how much it hurts me and tries to avoid missing our appointment.
I do think it helps to write in a journal about the sad feelings you feel and how you are missing him. If he didn't really want to have you call him, he wouldn't have offered it to you. Three weeks is a long time. WE are here for you and you can post all you'd like. There's plenty of us that understand how hard it is. We'll help you pass the time away. Too bad he didn't give you something to hold on to while he is gone. That has always helped me too. The helpful things take time to figure out but you will do it.
Hugs to you~
LadyBug
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