Posted by orchid on June 19, 2006, at 21:47:24
In reply to Crash, posted by Tamar on June 19, 2006, at 18:56:20
> I’m so sad.
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> I wish it would go away.
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> I want to work things out with Bert and I’m less and less sure it’s possible. I think I need to find a way of accepting his distance or convincing him to stop pushing me away.
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> I don’t think it’s going to happen.
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> :(
> :(
> :(
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Now that I read HFs question, a similar question comes to my mind. Since you saw him before and were perfectly happy with him then, and now you are not so satisfied, is it possible, that he has developed some sort of counter transference towards you? I feel many Ts develop some view of their patients over time - and it might be or may not be sexual, but any feelings on the part of the T could be termed as counter transference. Maybe he views you as having developed too much insight and he is afraid of sounding dull for you. I actually many times feel little bit intimidated to write to you myself, since I feel whatever I say, you will probably know better anyways.Maybe he has some similar feelings himself, and that probably needs to be looked at.
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thread:658846
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