Posted by happyflower on June 12, 2006, at 10:00:28
My T asked me last week was there anything my husband can do or say to make any difference to me for what he has done.
I told him I couldn't answer that question because I really don't know.
I told him I just want to know why he did it. Was it because I wasn't fullfilling something for him or was it all about him and nothing to do with me. My T says I might not ever get that question answered but my DH should be at least willing to talk about what happened and tell me what he wants in the future.
Well he just wants to go on like nothing ever happened. He tried to come on to me again, and I am like NO WAY. So now that he isn't getting any from his girlfriend or me, now I am probably making him look somewhere else. But I don't care, I need him to talk to me and he won't, and he won't do therapy, it is SO frusterating. I just want to cut off his thingie so he can't betray me again, but then I would have to cut off his head too because it started as emotional and not physical. I really think I hate him right now.
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