Posted by Dinah on June 9, 2006, at 13:06:32
In reply to “placeholder” syndrome, posted by pseudoname on June 9, 2006, at 12:19:13
I think there have been studies that say that that's how most people live. Thinking things like "Once I (lose 15 pounds) (get that promotion) (get married) (have a child)..."
And that it's better to live life focussing on the present.
I sometimes wonder if this is as good as it gets. I usually see, in retrospect, that there is a sign that my depression hasn't fully lifted. Because the rest of the time, I know that this really is as good as it gets, and that's not half bad.
On the other hand, I'm currently thinking "Once I quit my job..."
poster:Dinah
thread:654841
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