Posted by susan47 on May 23, 2006, at 22:04:21
In reply to Re: maybe I shouldn't post anymore then » happyflower, posted by Larry Hoover on May 23, 2006, at 14:56:26
And that is the crux of a situation, here, that so many clients or patients feel responsible and like they need to protect their therapist, even when they themselves have been the most hurt .. and all a therapist can do, I believe, "ethically" or whatever, according to a code they choose to live by, is ignore it all, pretend it never existed, and it's all in the client/patient's mind, this is all OUR imagining, OUR transference, OUR problems ... it's absolutely sick. It really is. It is. If therapists really knew how much responsibility their patients or their clients took on, for the relationship, NONE of them would EVER EVER EVER come onto a client or a patient the way one therapist did here online, as though THIS is all your fault, THESE are our boundaries, how DARE you cross this boundary ... A true therapist is one who understands.
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