Posted by susan47 on May 22, 2006, at 11:57:34
In reply to Re: I called him today and left a message--HF? » Jost, posted by happyflower on May 22, 2006, at 8:02:45
I believe that HF, that his boundaries weren't complete with you and maybe we're just supposed to get over that and that's the thing that makes us stronger .. stronger than we've ever been, before .. it's just so horribly painful to go through that, especially when you don't trust your therapist because after all that boundary was crossed, in whatever way it was shown, it was ... it was. And all we can do is pick and dust off or go completely insane with doubt and self-doubt and pain and insecurity .. like I did, I fell off the ledge, but willingly ... willingly .. I actually threw myself off. Don't do that. Be wise about it, learn from somebody like me. I hope I've learned. I hope I have.
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