Posted by eyes2ursoul on May 10, 2006, at 6:05:03
In reply to sexual dreams/fantasies..., posted by Karolina on May 9, 2006, at 23:31:41
Hi there Karolina!
Far as I can tell from the advise i've been given here and from my own experience in therapy, the thing to do is to tell your T about your dreams.
Sure some T's don't put too much weight onto ours dreams e.g. CBT therapists. But mine does CBT and telling her some of my sexual dreams helped me to not obsess about them. She was really cool about it. I asked her if she was angry or repulsed by my dreams and she said 'No, A dreams a dream'.
I also may venture to add that in the case of you worrying about your T being uncomfortable, I could be wrong, but I was under the impression it wasn't the patients role to look after the comfort etc of out T's in our sessions.
So i hope that is a little bit of help in helping you decide what you feel is best for you.
Take care
p.s. TO THE BABBLERS WHO HELPEDE ME >I would like to say sorry to all you babblers who i still haven't got back to. the ones who answered my thread and gave me their advice about my "sexual lesbian feelings fantsy for my T". I have not been feeling up to any babble since then. I know it was a week or so ago, actually it was 30/4/06, I would like to thank you all for your help and advice. THANKS !! Thanks!! THANKS!!
And, I hope you will forgive me for not replying at the time. I was just so mixed up and talking on here to everyone who replied to me really helped me alot. THANKS AGAIN!!! to >Veracity. >Happyflower. >Barna. >Annierose. >Fallsfall. >Gardenergirl. & >Tabitha. YOU ARE VERY GOOD BABBLERS AND I APRECIATE YOUR HELP!!
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