Posted by happyflower on April 20, 2006, at 12:40:48
In reply to Re: Okay, this is me being a smart butt » happyflower, posted by milly on April 20, 2006, at 11:06:07
> Oh happy,
> it sounds a bit of a mixed message to me, I know how confused I'd be if my T said that to me. I'd be so hopeful about all the possible fairytale endings.I have those hopes too, he knows it too. He knows I want a social relationship with him, we have talked about it briefly twice over the last couple of months. I guess from what I read it is unethical for them even to indicate that we could have a future relationship after therapy. He tells me no, but then he says this stuff. Maybe he is just trying to be funny. He said one time don't laugh at me when you pass me up on the track. So maybe I am just being sensitive to this.
> Please don't get hurt, he musn't 'play' with you, I'm worried about you.
I guess I didn't realize that I am feeling hurt by this until I read your post. I want him in my life always, but I can't have him. Maybe he doesn't know how I am taking it all. Is running the same race together different anything else outside of his office? I don't want him to ignore me, but to say I can get him a cup of water when he finished SOUNDS social to me, heck it sounds like ever more than that. Since when am I suppose to take care of his needs? Hmmmm.
Thanks for your suport Milly. How are you doing by the way?
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