Posted by happyflower on April 20, 2006, at 9:36:51
In reply to Re: Pls read: hubby goes to female T/T is your hubby, posted by zazenduck on April 20, 2006, at 9:17:57
I kinda agree. Therapy isn't being taken place in a bubble. It still involves 2 people both with pasts, and futures. It is a give and take. Nobody knows what really goes on in the room between the two people except the 2 people. Even then it is each person perception of what is going on.
I believe good therapy is an intimacy between two people. Even though there are boundries, feelings are flowing both ways. And some of those feeling are love and caring.
If my DH was a T , it would be tough I think knowing he so much to others, but in a way it is a compliment too.
A month ago I was telling my T I felt like such a fraud. I have been sort of mentoring some younger people and giving them love advice. I am like I know I am giving good advice, but I feel so fake because my love life is so much in trouble.
My T said that people are seeing the good stuff in you and feel that you can give offer good advice. A lot of T's have had or is having a very troubled life, but they can still be great T's. My T said a cardiogist can still be a good doctor even thought he might have heart trouble too. I guess I got off the subject here. sorry
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