Posted by Emily Elizabeth on March 13, 2006, at 10:33:34
In reply to unwanted touch at work*trigger*, posted by B2chica on March 13, 2006, at 10:16:44
Go pdoc! I absolutely agree with what he said. What this person is doing is sexual harassment. There is no reason EVER to touch a coworker's thigh! It is not okay. I would encourage you to send a brief email (that way it is documented in writing if you need it in the future) telling him that it is not appropriate for him to touch you and you need him to keep a respectful, professional distance when speaking to you. Also say that if he does not stop, you will file a formal complaint with the company. In good news, businesses are now much more aware of the possibility that they could get sued abt this stuff. Therefore, they are much more likely to back you up if you need them.
But, I'm also sorry that your group and your T fell short in supporting you on this matter. Are you the type of person that could bring this up to your t? It sounds like you are experiencing a disconnect with her. How long have you been working together?
Best,
EE
poster:Emily Elizabeth
thread:619784
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