Posted by All Done on March 8, 2006, at 17:12:01
In reply to Re: Is this supposed to work? » All Done, posted by annierose on March 6, 2006, at 16:27:43
> I don't know how it's supposed to work, but I feel and understand that pain all too well. It's interesting how we unconsciously recreate our past.
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> HOWEVER ... I do think that your T will ultimately help you with this. Sharing how you felt is one of many steps along the journey. I do think your T will help heal the wound of the past so you will be able to receive the love of your husband in the here and now. It just takes time, and lots and lots of talking about those feelings.I guess I just don’t understand. In recreating our pasts, aren’t our T’s supposed to provide a safe and nurturing environment where we can experience how it “should have been”? Instead, I’m going through the same pain with my T and he can’t give me a different outcome.
Sorry, I guess I’m just thinking outloud.
Thanks for understanding and talking to me about it, annierose.
Laurie
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