Posted by 10derHeart on February 17, 2006, at 16:52:37
In reply to Yippee!, posted by Tamar on February 17, 2006, at 5:51:04
Sounds great!
You know, about the not recognizing you, I have some random thoughts. If I recall, weren't you pregnant the whole time before? Not that that is *enough* to explain it, but maybe, to some people, it makes a bigger difference than we's imagine. (He was overcome by your pregnancy glow and perceived you differently?!) But more than that, I think it shows your T. really is someone who consistently looked past the outside and remembered the "inside Tamar", so now is actually all fuzzy on your physical appearance.
I'm reminded, too, of the many posters who, even if they've been with their T's for a long while, can't recall if they wear glasses, eye color, etc. So, it can go both ways, maybe? If you tended to often not look at him (don't recall if you did or didn't), maybe he wasn't looking at you as much as he could have, either, so didn't *store* that memory efficiently?
Gosh....must be my owns fears leaking in here. I mean, it's not like you made a big fuss about the issue. That's all me. It's just kind of fascinating to me you'd each have some degree of this inability to remember each other's outer selves. It seems like an unexpected, but not at all bad thing.
Have a wonderful weekend!
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