Posted by Susan47 on February 5, 2006, at 14:34:05
In reply to I left my wife for a ..., posted by Michael_Chicago on February 2, 2006, at 14:49:09
> This is no joke. I swear it's true, and it's so embarrassing I can't even tell my therapist. I left my wife for a Thai transsexual prostitute. My wife and I had been married for 11 years. We hadn't slept together in over 4 years. I travel a lot on business and one night I went looking. She found out, now we're divorced.
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> I used to think I was fairly intelligent, well educated, etc. Now I often think I've gone completely nuts. I'm afraid of what huge mistake I'm going to make next. I'm going to propose marriage to my new Thai girlfriend.
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> What the hell happened to me?
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How did you let yourself down?
What are your new girlfriend's values in life, do they match yours? What's so fascinating about the two of you as a couple? Are you happy together? Are you out hurting people, embezzling money maybe, or raping, murdering and pillaging? If not, what on earth makes you think you're not intelligent, well educated, etc? Has that changed, about you? Why are you embarrassed? Did you have a negative view of transsexuality and prostitution before you decided the person behind the label and the facade was more important, and you could live with that, you had the courage to live with what's right for you?
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