Posted by LittleGirlLost on February 4, 2006, at 0:56:33
In reply to Re: Ever worry about T's age? (may trigger) » LittleGirlLost, posted by frida on February 2, 2006, at 12:57:42
> I totally understand, I wouldn't exactly know how to tell her this, it's a bit difficult, but i think it only shows how much you care about her.
> It's not offensive at all, just the contrary. It just shows how scared you are of losing her.and how important she is to you
Frida,
Thanks, you brought up some good points. Unfortunately I wasn't able to tell her any of this when I saw her last night... too much going on with my vacation and stuff. I hope I can bring it up when I get back. I think seeing my uncle in his condition is scaring me that it could be her... I just don't want to scare her though either. I think that is part of my worry with the age thing. But like your T says, our lives are fragile and there are no guarantees at any age...
I quoted your 2 lines above because I also wanted to comment on something else. I always tend to shy away from saying something that would reveal how much I care for her. Maybe it's because my family is (and always was) cold and distant, and positive feelings just were not expressed to one another, but I am embarrassed to admit just how important she is to me... like I'm not supposed to feel that way, or I'm bad or something... or if I really like something it will get taken away from me...
Yeah I think I need to talk to her about this...
lgl
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