Posted by quietheart on February 2, 2006, at 9:29:49
Hi all-
I am a quiet listener on these boards, but now need some advice. As a 28 yr old single professional woman living in the suburbs in NEw England, I have a pretty quiet life. I am working on moving to a large urban center where my quality of life will hopefully improve (re socializing etc). Anyway, that aside, I feel like I hardly have my life together right now. I am totally disorganized (I would DIE if anyone saw my apt right now). There are food wrappers and used dishes everywhere, clothes strewn about the floor and all over the living and dining room, etc. I always get fed up and clean up and my apt looks perfect but then everything gets dirty again and I kick myself for not being able to keep things moderately organized.Then there's the issue of appearance. I am 5'5", 130 lbs, and recently started working out. I am so lazy that I barely take any time w my appearance, and I feel so bad about it. But I feel so ugly and everything seems so out of control that I have no motivation to do my makeup and hair, etc. I used to care a lot more about all this, I don't know what happened. Please don't tell me to get help for depression, as I have already done that. I can function in my life at a reasonable level (I am an investment banker). Please help me.
poster:quietheart
thread:605438
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20060131/msgs/605438.html