Posted by milly on February 1, 2006, at 9:48:46
In reply to Re: Should 'being a Jessica' pass into English lan » milly, posted by Dinah on January 31, 2006, at 11:35:59
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>> But maybe you could remind me of this when I forget again. There are these warring voices in my head, and sometimes the voice that says I'm a pathetic leech clinging to him against his will drowns the other voices. Or that he groans when he hears my voice. Or that he flinches when he thinks about me caring about him so much.Sure reminder booked! I know what you mean I'm constantly accusing him of wishing I wasn't there so that he could have a coffee break! Once when I was late and he had got on with some paperwork there was an almighty scene because I thought he must be thinking 'bother she's turned up. I'll have to do this later!'
Feeling very insecure I mentioned it to my pdoc (about taking up his time, and how important T was becoming to me) etc) and she said 'Oh, hes just paid to listen to you going on' I'm still not over that and often throw it at my T even though I know that is not how he sees it.
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> Maybe he might not tell you what you want to hear, but maybe talking about it is important anyway?I think it probably is
milly
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