Posted by fairywings on January 23, 2006, at 16:07:26
In reply to I LOVE YOU GUYS~THANKS!, posted by LadyBug on January 22, 2006, at 12:18:03
hi LB,
you ARE good w/words!
it doesn't seem very sensitive for your T to suggest you devalue her, it sounds kind of petty to me, esp. if she knows the situation with your stylist, and how you feel about your hair.
Have you told her how you feel about her vacation?
Maybe print out this part of your post and take it to her:
>> She says she's importatnt to her and then in an odd way I devalue her and want to go get my hair done instead of see her? So I'm trying to process that and not get to nasty with her. It's ok for her to cancel our weekly meeting, but I can't? The person that does my hair only comes in town once a week and she will only be here on Thurs. this week and I have to go after work. That's the time I have schedlued for my T. appointment. I left her a message and told her I could cancel my appointment and get my hair done. I have it done every 4 weeks on the dot and this is my 4 weeks. I can't stand to let it go, it's so important to me. My hair is one of the things I'm really particular about.<<What does she mean that you devalue her by your choice of ins.? It sounds kind of inappropriate that she would talk about how she feels about something like that unless you were leaving her bec. of a choice to change ins. plans, or unless you asked her opinion.
fw
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