Posted by JenStar on January 19, 2006, at 23:15:48
In reply to Re: What do you all have in common with your T?, posted by Emily Elizabeth on January 19, 2006, at 21:42:49
I don't think it sounds stalkerish to notice things! I notice things about people all the time, and they're not my T. Of course, I also miss things too, so maybe I'm at an even 50/50 for observation skills. :)
But I pay attention to little things - do people use a straw or not? Sugar in the ice tea? Rumple up the paper sleeve for the straw or leave it? Elbows on table or not? I don't catalogue these things for any purpose, really -- I just notice.
I think if you spend lots of time with a person, you can't help but know their little quirks and habits.
JenStar
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