Posted by fairywings on December 15, 2005, at 13:09:33
In reply to Feeling very depressed today, posted by crushedout on December 15, 2005, at 12:46:09
My guess is, that bec. on other days you had to drag her out of bed, she was really happy with you, where maybe she isn't so much at home? If you're walking her in addition to the yummy meals, then she's getting lots of balance. While the owners are concerned, and I'm sure worrying about arthritis is a valid concern, she was happy with you. Maybe she doesn't get the walks and attention with her owners? I'd love to have you for my dog sitter. My dog would love you!That said, one of our dogs used to go to a friend's house to visit. The little girl was overweight and underactive. She would sit around and feed our dog all day. She'd gain several pounds in a weekend. To them it was entertainment to feed the dog. They weren't walking her, so she wasn't getting any balance. I asked them not to feed her more than X # of treats a day, and left treats with them, but they fed her grapes, apples, cookies, pizza... They did love her, slept with her, met her other needs, but weren't doing what was in her best interest as far as junk food. A little is fine w/me, but too much isn't good.
I think there's a big difference. If dogs are being walked, and they're generally healthy and happy, then they certainly should be grateful for your loving care. I'd be pissed if they scolded me after caing for her so attentively. Is she a pretty normal weight? Did they leave you instructions to weigh her daily and not let her gain an ounce? (sarcasm) Don't feel guilty, you loved that dog, and that's what she needed most.
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