Posted by fairywings on December 14, 2005, at 19:23:50
In reply to Support vs. Education/Analysis, posted by cricket on December 14, 2005, at 11:02:23
i never thought of that cricket, you are so smart. now that you mention it, my t tries to get me to look at things differently, and i've been taking that defensively, even though he's even told me he's trying to get me to see things in another way. i thought he was being unsupportive, minimizing my feelings, and being simplistic. i thought i was unworthy, that my problems were too minor, and that i was wallowing in self pity. i never considered what to look at it from your pov.
thank you for shedding some much needed light on this.
fw
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