Posted by Pfinstegg on December 14, 2005, at 12:30:51
In reply to Re: my sympathies » happyflower, posted by AuntieMel on December 14, 2005, at 10:43:29
was very distressing, at least to me. I have loved hearing about your growth as a person, and a woman, and would be very sad not to hear from you again. Everyone's marriage is different and complicated, and for you to make the decision you did took tremendous courage and strength- qualities you have obviously always had, but which really seemed to have grown, even a lot more, during the past year. I respect it completely. You are really the one- the only one- who knows what will be best for you. Your life has blossomed out so much in just a year; you are still young, and if separation and divorce seems right to you, I trust your decision. There will be a lot of joy and fulfillment ahead for you, despite the grieving you are doing now. Guys seem to really like you- and your husband may have huge, unaddressed problems with intimacy in marriage. How about keeping on posting? If you don't, I'm really going to miss you!
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