Posted by happyflower on December 12, 2005, at 12:07:57
In reply to Saw my T twice today! LOL, posted by happyflower on December 12, 2005, at 11:46:43
Well after I told him about my nightmares I was having about my mom abusing me, I said I was tired of being so f*cked up.
First of all he said I wasn't f*cked up.
2nd, he said you can look at it in two ways.He said everyone has had bad stuff that has happend to them, some worse than others, but we are share in that . WE can either look at it like yeah, it was bad, but I survived it, and I am okay.
Or you can say, yeah, I am crazy and f*cked up, but so is everyone else. LOLHe said the people that are really f*ucked up are the ones who didn't see what happend to them was abuse and then went on to abuse their own kids. He said I stopped the cycle of abuse and am living at a high level of functioning. So I guess I am okay or I could say I am f*cked up and so is everyone else. Which should I choose? LOL
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