Posted by Tamar on December 2, 2005, at 4:05:18
In reply to Bowties, posted by fallsfall on December 1, 2005, at 20:34:41
My bet is on the bow tie.
I think he’ll get up in the morning, look at his ties, pick up a bowtie, remember what you said, and consider the possibility that you will think he’s wearing it to gratify you. Then he’ll wonder whether he should wear a regular tie so that it doesn’t look as if he’s trying to gratify you. Then he’ll decide that he likes the bow tie and you like the bow tie and since you both like it he might as well wear it. But by the time your session starts he will have forgotten all about it unless you remind him. Do you think you’ll be able to ask him how he decided what kind of tie to wear?
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