Posted by alexandra_k on November 30, 2005, at 2:45:27
In reply to Re: I'm back » alexandra_k, posted by muffled on November 29, 2005, at 23:16:53
> ***hard to be kind and patient with someone WHO DOESN"T EVEN EXIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!I think thats a stumbling block for me. She's screaming 'I exist', I'm muttering,'your just and ego state or something.' I don't think I really treat her seriously, I do and I don't. Sh*t, this is so freaking NUTS. I am ME, who the f*ck she is, I don't know.She is you and her feelings are your feelings and her thoughts are your thoughts...
Because they arise from your brain processes just like you do.
It is just that... It doesn't SEEM like she is you. But that is what she IS.
So I guess when SHE is mad
That means part of you is mad
And you feel hurt in response to her being mad
And get mad at her
And round and round it goes...And the only way to jump off is to be kind to yourself
And to her
Because she is a part of you
poster:alexandra_k
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